Rather than dither around with solutions to a problem that should not exist, let’s evaluate the known information.

The cartridge on the left with its cast 230gr Lee bullet in WW alloy, cast over 15 years ago, and now measures .453 just ahead of the case mouth, AND the cartridge on the right with a Blue Bullet at .452" loaded a few years ago, will fit effortlessly in a Wilson Cartridge Gauge, will chamber and extract easily in a Wilson CQB pistol, a Colt Series 70 pistol, and a Rock Island 1911 pistol. The problem is not with the cartridges, it rests squarely with the Metro Arms pistol and specifically, its barrel chamber.
It seems as though the chamber reamer was either not run into the barrel deep enough or that the factory reamer was at the end of its service life, at its smallest allowable dimensions. Factory ammunition with jacketed bullets I have tried so far will chamber and extract fine, but no handloaded ammunition with home cast or commercial cast bullets (including powder coated bullets) will function in this barrel.
This pistol needs either a chamber reamer or a new barrel. Simple as that. Having never performed a chamber reaming with a finishing reamer before, I have to ask if this is something I can do by hand or do I need a lathe or commercial type drill press to perform the reaming? I am guessing that it may be more cost effective to purchase a new barrel rather than try to ream it, ruin it, and then need to buy a new barrel to clean up my Dremel tool gunsmithing mess.
With rifle in hand, I confidently go forth into the darkness.